Last night during dinner, Tommy made the comment that it seems most likely that we are only going to have one child. We both started cracking up at this comment. Not that any decisions have been made as far as our future children, but after watching me for the past 8 months I think Tommy felt it was safe to assume that this might be it since pregnancy has not been my cup of tea. No judgements please…I am just stating my personal experience thus far
Anyway, I thought it would be a good time to document a bit about my first pregnancy. Some would say I am a bad person/mom-to-be for my thoughts and behaviors, but those who know me will probably laugh since I am known for speaking my mind! I am very excited (more scared) about our new arrival, but I’d be lying if I said it hasn’t been a challenge.
One of the first questions people usually ask me is what cravings I have. I really haven’t experienced many cravings, instead I tend to eat a lot of the exact same foods. I can tell Tommy is ready for me to be back to my normal diet because I get a lot of “Man I haven’t had a steak in a while” or “PJ’s sounds good for dinner, we haven’t had it in a week”. So here is my list of pregnancy favorite foods (no judgement on the nutritional value below…I take my vitamins instead):
- Cereal, especially Captain Crunch
- Strawberries
- PJ Clarke’s burger and french fries
- Mac and cheese
- Anything Italian
- McDonald’s
- Cake and ice cream, for the first 5 months I lost my sweet tooth, but it has returned now
- Starburst
People are also very concerned with seeing your belly and it’s size throughout pregnancy (obvious I know). For me, I’d say that 5 months and 7 months were the two times that I really ‘popped’ so far. We were visiting GA around 5 months and when I arrived my dad said I didn’t look pregnant and he was disappointed. Low and behold the week I was there I really started to show a bump. Then 7 months was the next turning point and people really started noticing, especially because at that point I couldn’t hide it very well. The other thing I have realized is that people always look at your belly first and then you
Another thing people ask is ‘how are you feeling, are you enjoying being pregnant?’ My answer to these questions is usually ‘I’m not feeling so great and I’m ready for this to be over’. Again, no judgements…I know it will all be worth it in the end
Here are a couple reasons:
The silly infection that I somehow got, likely from all my traveling, has probably been the hardest to deal with. So, infections and pregnancy don’t go well together. At least this is my own issue and not something that everyone has during pregnancy
Pregnancy, hot summers and walking around NYC are not a good combination!
My feet have been so swollen! Many of you know how obsessed I am with my shoes and can hopefully understand the frustration this causes me! I am just praying to fit into them again someday
My shoe ‘fits’ have probably given Tommy some good entertainment as he watches me sit near my shoe shelves and whine!
I am so clumsy. A perfect example is the uneven road that I cross daily at 60th St. I know the hole is there, but still manage to trip on it every single day. I drop things, spill things and run into things much too often. This usually results in me getting upset at my lack of control and Tommy laughing at me. We’ll be lucky if we have any glasses or plates at the end of this because I drop them so often!
I am also very forgetful. An example would be me making myself some pasta for lunch and forgetting about it completely. I go about doing another task and start hearing the dogs barking like crazy. Of course the water is boiling over and all the pasta is stuck and burned on the pan…oh well! The forgetfulness is also not helpful when trying to accomplish work or make appointments.
So, I really hope that my clumsiness and forgetfulness go away because I don’t know how I will survive! I usually have everything under control, so these symptoms are new to me!
I’ll end this on a positive note and mention some of the things I have enjoyed throughout this pregnancy. First and foremost is watching Tommy’s face when he can see or feel her move. She is very active, so at this point I am pretty used to all her different movements, but he is always so shocked or surprised by her different movements. It is fun to see how excited he gets, but also reminds me that I am in for trouble since he will be wrapped around her finger no question! At least I have never had a problem being the bad guy
Callie and Jeffrey seem to like me better pregnant. The dogs have no idea what is about to hit them, but during the pregnancy they have been more affectionate towards me which isn’t normal. Callie is especially funny because she will snuggle next to my belly. They of course still prefer Tommy, but at least they like me a little better!
While most people in NYC aren’t nice to anyone, I will say that they people I see daily in my neighborhood have been really nice. The guy at the sandwich shop next door to our apartment always asks how the baby is ‘cooking’. My regular UPS guy brings my packages up our many flights of stairs so I don’t have to go down to the front door and always asks how I am feeling. The people at the gym and the parking garage are always super friendly as well.
So, that is it for my 8 months recap! Tommy and I are starting to count down the days and can’t wait to meet miss Parker Rose Levengood!